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A rant-ish thing.

Wed Aug 29, 2012, 12:09 PM
  • Mood: Hurt


So while looking on one of my watchers pages I saw a comment that kind of upset me and I felt a little trolled.

Some one had brought up this watcher being a fan of my bby, :iconshark-bites: and they asked if they knew of me.. the person replied :

" yeah i know 'kodee' dont think thats her name as shes never said it before i dont think... but any who XD yes i like hers too c: "

... 'kodee'

Really...? My name IS Kodee.
My full first name is Kodee-Lee. It says so on my birth cirtificate, my ID, my school cards and my mail. That is my name.
And if you don't think it is my name, then ASK me.. dont go commenting about me somewhere else. :iconnomemeplz:
I commented back to the person, saying it was my name.. and please adress me as a male.

YES, I AM AWARE THAT I AM NOT PHYSICALLY MALE.
I DO KNOW THIS.

MY TITS ARE A GIVE AWAY.
I PROMISE, I AM AWARE.

I am FtM transgender. And I don't dress the part of a boy as much because I am not openly discussing this with my parents, they don't even know. Only a select few of my real friends know and anyone online who pays attention to the things I write knows.
I also realize there are times I draw myself as I currently am.. which is female. Yes, I do that sometimes. Not all the time like I used too. MOST TIMES I AM DRAWN AS A MALE.

And if you look in :iconshark-bites:'s gallery.. There is only one or two pictures where he has drawn me as a female. Besides that, he draws me as a male.

If you are uncomfortable calling me by male terms, that's fine. I dont mind being called a girl in that case. BUT..

BUT.

I will respect you more if you refer to me as male. Because it is my choice and my feelings.
And no one will change them but me.

. . .S4M. . .
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:iconlucifidelitas:
I'm really glad that you clearified that!! I didn't know what your preferences are! Thanks!
:iconiloveitplz:
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:iconmewgon1:
kodee is kodee male female male male female, male? wtf i just confused myself.... but whatever. KODEE BE KODEE.
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:icondreax3:
~dreax3 Aug 29, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
see i wasnt sure if Kodee was like your real name but i didnt care ! btw thats an awesome name c: plus yeah that person is stupid :/
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:iconnatie15:
~Natie15 Aug 29, 2012  Student General Artist
omg no why would they say that aughghhghjklfd //screams into pillow/
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:iconstyl-fly:
~Styl-Fly Aug 29, 2012   General Artist
it's fine love eue
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:iconnatie15:
~Natie15 Aug 29, 2012  Student General Artist
bllluuuh
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~Soulofthenight663 Aug 29, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
I can totally see why that would annoy you. Seeing as I'm a lesbian, and quite open about it, and a friend of mine just came out as a pansexual. Someone told me Pansexual simply does not exist and that she is bisexual or nothing. I got pretty frustrated, considering I know the difference, but also because she was never made fun of until coming out about being Pansexual, when before she only claimed she was indeed bisexual.
Plus someone called me a fag today, first day of my Sophomore year. (Fun, right?)
But I want to just say I refer to you both as males and you're my favorite dA couple. <3
Just wanted to show some love. ~
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:iconbabymoonjellies:
~babymoonjellies Aug 29, 2012  Student General Artist
I know how you feel, bro. /: And maybe you don't appreciate my input, but I've been there before. And it sucks.
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:icondynestyx:
~DynestyX Aug 29, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I totally understand your situation..... I can't really see myself as a female either sometimes. It's almost like I am in the wrong body. That was very rude of that person, and I hope they understand what it feels like to have things said behind their back.

You are so strong!! I admire that :)
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:iconthewhoismeandyetnot:
~TheWhoISMeAndYetNOT Aug 29, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I'm sorry Kodee, I'm not exactly in the same situation, but I'm in a similar one.
I hope people learn to accept you as you are c:
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